And…It’s Monday

It’s Monday and at least the kidlit has swim lessons this morning. I’ll have a few hours to myself. As always, I’ve got more to do than I could possibly handle, but in a perfect world, I’d already have the mortgage check written,  Chapter 2 completed and moved onto Chapter 3. During swim lesson, I could prepare our home for the non-existent housing market. I can dream about so many things, but the truth is, I didn’t do too much dreaming last night. I woke up repeatedly and now that I’ve completed my morning’s journal entry and written several pages of Chapter 2, my eyes are more than happy to close without my help. So I will say many thanks to Janet Johnson for today’s blog question. I was too tired to think of my own.

What do you dream about?

Joplin Family Needs Help

These girls already lost their biological parents, and now they’ve lost their mother, too. If you can help in any way, please do! I just received this from my adoption agency representative. My heart and prayers go out to these girls.

Last week we received an update from Candace Shively, Children’s Division Director, who told us that more than 15 foster family homes have been destroyed in the tornado last month. Those foster families were caring for 25 children. In addition, one adoptive parent was killed.

As a community, we are asking for your help. We need you to spread the word that MFCAA is accepting donations of gift cards (in any amount) for gas, Target, Walmart and fast food. These donations will be provided to Missouri State Foster Care and Adoption Board member from the South Region, Melinda Nicholson, who has been on the ground in Joplin since the storm. She is working directly with Jean Rodriguez, the Children’s Division Circuit Manager in the Joplin office, to provide support to the effected families and children.

Additionally, we are seeking help with a special request. There are two girls who have been left orphaned as a result of their adoptive mother’s death in the storm. The family was passing through Joplin in a car on their way to church when the tornado hit them. One of the girls remains hospitalized at Children’s Mercy here in Kansas City.

The Children’s Division has identified some kin who are willing to step up and serve as guardians for the injured girl and her sister. However, this kinship family is facing substantial loss, both personal loss (five funerals in the last week), and financial loss (one vehicle was totaled and not replaced by insurance at an adequate level and another needs repair). In addition, they are expending substantial resources traveling back and forth to the KC area to visit with the girl at CMH, and will now have to do some home remodeling to accommodate raising two girls that they had not anticipated having.

This family needs specific help. They need Kansas City area folks who can help them by visiting them and the injured child at the hospital, they need a car or van, they need help with gas and food. They need whatever kind of welcoming and support Kansas City’s foster and adoptive families can provide for them.

If you can help, email me directly at Lori@mfcaa.org so that I can connect you with the information you need. If you can provide gift cards or send in a donation, please send or drop off to MFCAA, 3210 S. Lee’s Summit Road, Independence, MO. 64055. You can also donate cash on our website, noting that the donation is for Joplin foster/adopt families on the form: www.mfcaa.org . Also, if you happen to be a social networking person, please consider posting this need on your facebook or my space page. We’d like to reach as many kind Kansas Citians as we can.

Due to Technical Difficulties…

This blog will be quiet on Monday. 🙁 My computer is buggy in every sense and it shall now be overhauled and happily, meet Windows Seven. I hope to be up and running again by Wednesday.

More News and Fun Stuff


I’ve never used Twitpic and probably never will. If you do, please be aware that in the fine print of their contract is the stipulation that any images you send through their service are theirs to do with as they please. Yeah. That’s right. You do still own the rights to the images, but you’ve given them the legal right to use those images in whatever way they wish. So do be careful and aware. And curse all EULAs with me. 🙂

And now onto happier tidings: I was recently tagged by one of my wonderful followers, Medeia Sharif. I’m supposed to share bits of my day with you all, so here goes:
Do you think you’re hot?

Not after regaining the forty pounds I lost five years ago. Thanks in large part to depression and an inability to avoid chocolate.

Upload a picture or wall paper you are using at the moment.


Sorry, my wallpaper is a picture of my daughter riding on my father’s shoulders, but I want to keep online pictures of her to a minimum.

When was the last time you ate chicken meat?

Two days ago, if chicken fingers really count???

The Song(s) you listened to recently?

Okay, you’re going to laugh, but the hubby picked up School House Rock on DVD several days ago and our daughter has watched every single ditty many times now. I go to sleep with “I’m Just a Bill,” “Rufus Xavier Sarsaparilla,” etc on my brain. LOL

What were you thinking as you were doing this?

Medeia wished her cat would leave her alone, I wished my daughter had slept in for ten more minutes so I could have finished yesterday morning!

Do you have nicknames?

Let’s see, the GYN called me a Tiger when I was born because I peed on him. (So? You wanna make a deal about it?) Dad still calls me Tiger to this day.


Also, there’s Mrs. Nezbitt (See Toy Story 1 when Buzz is a little off his rocker. That’s me.), endearments my husband invites that I will NOT share here and those things one gets called for being strong-willed, but those don’t really apply as nicknames, do they?

Tag eight Blogger friends.
(You are it!)

1. Julie Flanders

2. Lisa Yarde
3. Luanne Smith
4. Sandi Rog
5. Jai Joshi
6. Barbara Ann Wright
7. Margo Berendsen
8. Laurel Garver

Who’s listed as number one?

Julie Flanders. “What Else Is Possible” is the name of her blog and that says so many wonderful things about her.

Say something about number 5.

Her blog is utterly fascinating and recently, quite moving.

How did you get to know number 3?

We belong to Crested Butte’s writing community. Also, I judged her entry this year and am thrilled she is a finalist!

How about number 4?

We first met in the Historical Fiction Online Critique group. Sandi is an amazing writer of historical Christian fiction and even more important, she walks the walk. You have to read her testimony and recent trials to know what I mean, but she’s someone I’m so thankful has entered my life.

Leave a message for number 6.

Why the snapping turtle? Not that I don’t like snappers. I do. My then boyfriend (now husband) and I once saved one from squishdom on the highway. I love them. From a safe distance. LOL

Leave a lovey-dovey message for number 2.

Lisa has been such a rock of support recently – both through reading my mistaken drafts and comforting me when I got dropped from Amazon’s Breakthrough contest. She’s a super friend and author.

Do number 7 and number 8 have any similarities?

They’re both writers and tweeters and extra nice people. (For instance, I first met Laurel when she had her 111 followers contest and I won a nice big prize in which she said some very kind comments about my work. If you hurry over there this week, she’s wrapping up her 333 followers contest and there are some mighty nice gifts to be had. Margo comes and talks in here all the time – you’ve probably seen her – and she always has the most thoughtful responses. I don’t think she’s every dropped the “How interesting,” comment yet. LOL)

Links and Other Publishing Information of Note

This is a neat link I got from Vanessa Di Gregorio at Let the Words Flow. If you’re looking farther afield for authors to read and/or compare your work to, this Lit map is a God-send. Check it out and get your library card or Borders/Barnes&Nobel membership cards out. You’ll need them.

In other news: Scholastic has hired Duriya Aziz as vp, educational publishing, international group, reporting to Shane Armstrong, president, Scholastic international and growth markets. Aziz was at educational publisher Marshall Cavendish International (Singapore). Based in Singapore, she will be “responsible for building a publishing team to develop and adapt existing product for international markets, with a particular focus on the Southeast Asian region” along with directing the publishing operations at Scholastic India.